**Kevin Federline Accuses Britney Spears of Physical Abuse and Other Troubling Allegations in New Memoir**
*Published Oct. 17, 2025, 10:59 a.m. ET*
Kevin Federline has made some startling accusations against Britney Spears in excerpts from his upcoming memoir, *You Have No Idea*. RadarOnline.com reveals that some of the most shocking claims involve their children, Sean Preston and Jayden James.
**Allegations of Physical Abuse Toward Sean Preston**
Among the allegations, Federline claims Spears once got physical with their son Sean Preston, even punching him in the face. He also recounts an incident when Preston, around 10 or 11 years old, asked Federline why Spears insisted on making him bathe with her. Federline writes, “It was clear he was uncomfortable, to put it mildly, and I had to step in and make it stop.”
He further alleges that Spears knowingly fed their sons shellfish despite their allergies and generally ignored Jayden James’s allergy issues. Federline also recalls an incident in Louisiana where Jayden had to be hospitalized. While Spears reportedly told them it was allergy-related, Federline claims Jayden had actually ingested some pills. “Whether they were Britney’s or someone else’s, I’ll never know,” Federline states in his book.
**Concerns Over Britney Spears’ Visits With Their Sons**
Federline describes frequent visits between Spears and the boys but says he was often worried due to her erratic behavior. He notes conflicts with Spears’ agent and boyfriend, Jason Trawick, clashes with her father, and decisions that raised concerns about the environment the boys were exposed to.
One particularly disturbing example he provides involves the boys coming home with their hair bleached so severely that their scalps were burned. “Not just streaked or lightly done,” he explains. “It was bleached down to their scalps. Their skin was burned. I had to shave their heads, and their scalps looked like leopard print from their chemical burns.”
Federline adds that once the boys reached their teenage years, they no longer wanted to visit Spears.
**“I Wish You Were All Dead”: Traumatic Phone Call**
After Federline and his sons moved to Hawaii, the strained relationship between Spears and the boys reached a breaking point. He recalls a traumatic phone call during which Preston got into an argument with Spears. According to Federline, Spears allegedly told them she wished they were all dead.
“How could a mother say that to her son?” Federline writes. “Preston, having dealt with her vitriol for years, took it better than I did. He understood her anger and instability, but it didn’t make it any less painful. Trauma like that left scars, ones I fear they’ll carry for the rest of their lives.”
**Britney Spears Responds to Kevin Federline’s Allegations**
On October 16, Britney Spears addressed Federline’s accusations on social media. She wrote, “I 100 percent beg to differ the way he is literally attacking me in his interviews.”
Spears continued, “If truth be told the man in the interview went STRAIGHT TO the SOURCE and said it CLEAR AS DAY … no money from Britney for 5 years you trying to get paid that’s what general America is saying weird you both have moved on… your kids are adults it’s a different world now … why is HE SO ANGRY … and what’s scary is he’s convincing.”
She added, “It literally blows my mind the moments he stops before he cries are you f—— serious … I know his book will sell loads more than mine. If you really love someone then you don’t help them by humiliating them.”
Spears also noted that Federline had called her “one time” in the past six years and didn’t invite her to their son’s birthday. She concluded by saying she needs “healing.”
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The allegations and subsequent responses illustrate the ongoing complexities and tensions surrounding the famous former couple and their family. More details are expected as Federline’s memoir is released.
https://radaronline.com/p/britney-spears-wished-kids-were-dead-kevin-federline-alleges/